Taking Control Of Your Life.
Do you also feel that your life is not in your control or in your hand anymore?
If you want to take control back of your life then it doesn’t mean you can control everything that happens. It means confidently moving forward with your goals and priorities while accepting change as a part of life.
But how to be confident when you are thinking everything is going wrong.
When you are clear with yourself about what you are and who you are and what you really want in your life you will feel more flexible and in the flow.
There are some strategies that will help you from getting rid of everything:-
- Clarify your core values and beliefs:- we always check out what other people are doing on social media or on tv or in our neighborhood. Some are crushing their venture, some are still working although have 2 kids etc. etc. chasing everyone else’s dreams will pull you in different directions. Taking back your life’s control requires you to get clear with your mind what you actually want.
- Identify internal v/s external motivations:- if I talk about internal motivation that means your inner voice. Yes, what’s your heart saying to do? Where external motivation comes from your family, parents, friends, what they want you to be? You will take control of your life only when you will listen to your heart but it doesn’t mean you will ignore your family needs. You have to find that path where you can do both.
- Create a vision:- when I feel like I have no control on my life then I take a step back and think about my dreams and what I want, what is my mission. You will fill with the experience of what you want in your life to become. You can also create a vision board :- like images, photos, words, frames, phrases that reflect your dream. Place that board in your office or home or on your fridge so that you will always look at it and can work on your dreams.
- Believe that you can:- Many people have internal dialogues in their mind, I can’t do this, I am not good enough, that’s wont work etc. etc. they don’t know that these dialogues are coming in their mind from the past. So be aware of these negative self-talk. Taking control of your life means you have to be fully positive. Take a week to track your thoughts and voice and then work on that and believe in yourself that you can do it.
- Take Personal Responsibility:- Regaining control of your life means finding what you can control and what you can not. It means if you can control something then put 100% on that . Be nice to yourself plus give yourself a break and then start again and remember We Grow As We Go.
- Make a plan of action:- for working on something do one thing first make a plan of action that how to do that work . After that work on your plan and achieve target and by achieving that target you will get to know that you can achieve your goals and in the long run it will help you to boost your confidence.
When you’re ready to take control of your life, we’re here to help. We’ve put together a complete strategy for you people, who want to get unstuck and start living an authentic life of passion and purpose.
Check it out and start regaining control today.
